Tooting-based funeral directors Poppy’s share 10 funeral facts, highlighting the importance of marking a loved one’s death exactly how you wish.

1. There is no legal obligation to use a Funeral Director.
You can take charge of some, or all, of the funeral arrangements yourself. 

2. You don't have to use a traditional, black hearse.
It could be any vehicle, even a family estate car. 

3. You don't have to have a traditional wooden coffin.
The options are endless; willow, bamboo, cardboard, a shroud or you can even make or decorate the coffin yourself! 

4. The body can stay at home.
If this feels right for you, this is absolutely possible. 

5. The body does not need to be embalmed, or sutured.
These highly invasive procedures are not necessary. The body can be left in its natural state. 
 

6. Many independent-looking Funeral Directors are not independent.
This is important work. Make sure you know who you are employing. 

7. The body is rarely kept at the Funeral Director's high street shop.
Many Funeral Directors operate large 'hub’ mortuaries, often located many miles from the high street branches they serve. Ask where the body will be cared for. 

8. Funerals don't have to be expensive.
Shop around or ask a friend to do this on your behalf. Make sure you're not sold products or services you don't want or need. 

9. Euphemisms aren't helpful.
Families want to know, and can handle the truth. If you're asked the question, it's because someone wants to know the answer. 

10. Funeral Directors don't know best.
Families do. A good Funeral Director will support a family to have the funeral that's right for them. 
 

Poppy’s is a modern, award-winning funeral directors based in Tooting, and one of our valued Community Partners. Find out more on their website and follow them on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram. Find out more about our Community Partners here.